Life and Relations!

Sometimes if we introspect our life, we can feel that some things in our life are repeating.
We feel this has happened earlier also WITH US..LIKE the same environment, the same efforts, same feelings, same fears...

My mom used to say when I was young,"God will keep bringing up same issues again and again,until we pass this test because God is more interested in changing us then changing circumstances."

Yes, we change with time, with experiences. We do deal with them in a more stronger, more matured and positive manner.
We feel good that we did a good job this time handling these issues.....but.....but somewhere don't you think that disappointment,that sadness, that rejection,that hurt REMAINS!

People say that never expect anything from anyone. But don't you think the fact is when you like someone..we do expect something from them?
At least...a little expression,
a little sharing,
a little flexibility,
a little concern.....concern about our emotions, concern about our words!

Are we asking for more???

Old or new - - - any relationship... we deal in the same way as it is the only way to heart and where heart is concerned, we can't be artificial, we can't be prooving anything.

The time will come,as God wants it to come...when we deal those heart to heart relations beautifully.

I just wish, that it should not come so late that we loose all charm, all hope, all love!!!