Meri Natkhat Baatein × A apki Natkhat Aankhein
Our Worries - Our Weaknesses
Meri Chanchal Masti + Aapki Bharpur Hasti
...............................................................................amisha
Friday, March 26, 2010
Statistics......
Your Unlimited Patience ÷ My Unlimited Impulse
Saturday, September 26, 2009
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Three Magical Words!!!
Sorry, Thank you and I love You……. Three most powerful words, Three most promising words…Three most positive words…we all like to hear these, we all like to experience these.
Somewhere & somehow all these words make you feel good. However all these words are more common and used very casually and make it feel most genuinely by the listener!!!
SORRY - - - we use when we realise, we feel that knowingly or unknowingly we have hurt someone. At the same time a heartfelt Sorry can make us more conscious of all our immature and emotional actions.
THANK YOU - - - the more genuinely expressed, the more effective it is for both the parties. We must not forget to thank all those who bring a SMILE on our face. As in today’s world, we don’t even smile wholeheartedly!
I LOVE YOU - - - this has a magic of its own! Its soothing at any age, it makes you young by heart at any age…but it has different meaning and need at different age…The ultimate of life lies in emotional riches and not in material riches.
This will however go on I LOVE YOU – THANK YOU – SORRY …..
Somewhere & somehow all these words make you feel good. However all these words are more common and used very casually and make it feel most genuinely by the listener!!!
SORRY - - - we use when we realise, we feel that knowingly or unknowingly we have hurt someone. At the same time a heartfelt Sorry can make us more conscious of all our immature and emotional actions.
THANK YOU - - - the more genuinely expressed, the more effective it is for both the parties. We must not forget to thank all those who bring a SMILE on our face. As in today’s world, we don’t even smile wholeheartedly!
I LOVE YOU - - - this has a magic of its own! Its soothing at any age, it makes you young by heart at any age…but it has different meaning and need at different age…The ultimate of life lies in emotional riches and not in material riches.
This will however go on I LOVE YOU – THANK YOU – SORRY …..
Friday, August 15, 2008
WE AND OUR LANGUAGES!
We all know that each and every individual has its own body language. We do judge each other by the same...now as world is techno-savvy; it has taken one step ahead… where body language is transformed into text-a-language, sms-language and phone-a-language! We now judge each other more by the way we text and talk.
When we go for a party where many people are invited, do we gel with all? We with our vibes, our intuition and each other's body language, choose to talk to few...who makes us feel comfortable, right? As body language plays an important role in our life…there s something which weighs more in our relationship.
And that is…………………… our LOVE LANGUAGE!!!
We all love to be loved by our loved ones...but sometimes relation reaches to that point where gradually we feel something is going wrong. Suddenly, the bitterness, the ignorance and avoidance takes place.
Yes. We do love each other but that bond is not that strong which it was used to…Somewhere we get confused and ignorant…to this basic need of life….LOVE!!!
Very few of us can talk about our love language to our partner...and...When we talk...it’s mostly in the presence of our well-wishers (counsellors, friends...that also if we are lucky and give time and understanding to our relationship!).
So what are LOVE LANGUAGES?
Love languages are:
1) Word Of Affirmation: "The tongue has the power of life and death."
2) Quality Time: "Giving someone your undivided attention - keeping no difference
between the dating couple and married couple."
3) Receiving Gifts: " The worth of gift has NOTHING to do with monetary value AND
EVERYTHING to do with love."
4) Act Of Service: "Request gives direction to love but demand stops the flow of
love.”
5) Physical Touch: "All the 'LOVE TOUCHES' are the emotional lifeline."
I was gifted a book by my friend “The Five Love Languages” written by Gary Chapman. Personally I felt that everyone should read this book, especially married couples. Not because all have some or the other problems but to make married life more sparkling!
I request all, to read, to think, to apply...in all your relations...
It’s never too late...if both the partner decide to make it and not break it........
MAY GOD BLESS US ALL!
When we go for a party where many people are invited, do we gel with all? We with our vibes, our intuition and each other's body language, choose to talk to few...who makes us feel comfortable, right? As body language plays an important role in our life…there s something which weighs more in our relationship.
And that is…………………… our LOVE LANGUAGE!!!
We all love to be loved by our loved ones...but sometimes relation reaches to that point where gradually we feel something is going wrong. Suddenly, the bitterness, the ignorance and avoidance takes place.
Yes. We do love each other but that bond is not that strong which it was used to…Somewhere we get confused and ignorant…to this basic need of life….LOVE!!!
Very few of us can talk about our love language to our partner...and...When we talk...it’s mostly in the presence of our well-wishers (counsellors, friends...that also if we are lucky and give time and understanding to our relationship!).
So what are LOVE LANGUAGES?
Love languages are:
1) Word Of Affirmation: "The tongue has the power of life and death."
2) Quality Time: "Giving someone your undivided attention - keeping no difference
between the dating couple and married couple."
3) Receiving Gifts: " The worth of gift has NOTHING to do with monetary value AND
EVERYTHING to do with love."
4) Act Of Service: "Request gives direction to love but demand stops the flow of
love.”
5) Physical Touch: "All the 'LOVE TOUCHES' are the emotional lifeline."
I was gifted a book by my friend “The Five Love Languages” written by Gary Chapman. Personally I felt that everyone should read this book, especially married couples. Not because all have some or the other problems but to make married life more sparkling!
I request all, to read, to think, to apply...in all your relations...
It’s never too late...if both the partner decide to make it and not break it........
MAY GOD BLESS US ALL!
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Life and Relations!
Sometimes if we introspect our life, we can feel that some things in our life are repeating.
We feel this has happened earlier also WITH US..LIKE the same environment, the same efforts, same feelings, same fears...
My mom used to say when I was young,"God will keep bringing up same issues again and again,until we pass this test because God is more interested in changing us then changing circumstances."
Yes, we change with time, with experiences. We do deal with them in a more stronger, more matured and positive manner.
We feel good that we did a good job this time handling these issues.....but.....but somewhere don't you think that disappointment,that sadness, that rejection,that hurt REMAINS!
People say that never expect anything from anyone. But don't you think the fact is when you like someone..we do expect something from them?
At least...a little expression,
a little sharing,
a little flexibility,
a little concern.....concern about our emotions, concern about our words!
Are we asking for more???
Old or new - - - any relationship... we deal in the same way as it is the only way to heart and where heart is concerned, we can't be artificial, we can't be prooving anything.
The time will come,as God wants it to come...when we deal those heart to heart relations beautifully.
I just wish, that it should not come so late that we loose all charm, all hope, all love!!!
We feel this has happened earlier also WITH US..LIKE the same environment, the same efforts, same feelings, same fears...
My mom used to say when I was young,"God will keep bringing up same issues again and again,until we pass this test because God is more interested in changing us then changing circumstances."
Yes, we change with time, with experiences. We do deal with them in a more stronger, more matured and positive manner.
We feel good that we did a good job this time handling these issues.....but.....but somewhere don't you think that disappointment,that sadness, that rejection,that hurt REMAINS!
People say that never expect anything from anyone. But don't you think the fact is when you like someone..we do expect something from them?
At least...a little expression,
a little sharing,
a little flexibility,
a little concern.....concern about our emotions, concern about our words!
Are we asking for more???
Old or new - - - any relationship... we deal in the same way as it is the only way to heart and where heart is concerned, we can't be artificial, we can't be prooving anything.
The time will come,as God wants it to come...when we deal those heart to heart relations beautifully.
I just wish, that it should not come so late that we loose all charm, all hope, all love!!!
Wednesday, August 6, 2008
We love secretly and fight openly...
Yesterday, while coming from the school, I came across an unpleasant incident at the bus-stop.
The newly married couple was standing on the same bus-stop. Suddenly what happened between the two, made me feel embarrassed and shaken up!
The man got violent and started slapping his woman on the road. Everyone at the bus stop as well as passer by was stunned!
As the crowd gathered, he left her all alone and went away. The woman was shivering, she was trembling, and she was speechless!!!
The question here is not what happened between the two, but is this the way one should be treated???
We see couples sitting together, to be together (in decency) at public places. Police, as watch dog and public as concerned citizen try to intervene them, but for people who create such scenario, we feel ‘it’s their personal affair, why to interfere?’
It is not only interference or concern…it is how we treat each other respectfully!
Lately, I read a quote that NOW I have understood better.
It says - - -
“Only unhappy people make other people unhappy
Happy people will always treat you well.”
The newly married couple was standing on the same bus-stop. Suddenly what happened between the two, made me feel embarrassed and shaken up!
The man got violent and started slapping his woman on the road. Everyone at the bus stop as well as passer by was stunned!
As the crowd gathered, he left her all alone and went away. The woman was shivering, she was trembling, and she was speechless!!!
The question here is not what happened between the two, but is this the way one should be treated???
We see couples sitting together, to be together (in decency) at public places. Police, as watch dog and public as concerned citizen try to intervene them, but for people who create such scenario, we feel ‘it’s their personal affair, why to interfere?’
It is not only interference or concern…it is how we treat each other respectfully!
Lately, I read a quote that NOW I have understood better.
It says - - -
“Only unhappy people make other people unhappy
Happy people will always treat you well.”
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