It's just a bend and not the end!

“Often when we loose all hope and think this is the end
God smiles from above & says,
'Relax Sweet Heart, It’s just a bend and not the end'!"
----- SMS

There are many ups and downs in life. We get upset, stressed, confused, depressed and above all we get hurt.We get hurt the most, when our own people criticize us, nag us, find faults in whatever we do.
We feel HELPLESS because we can fight, argue, justify with outsiders but with our parents, spouses, children, brothers, sisters..... We only experience heartburn.
Last week a couple came to me for their tarot reading.Both were talking about their life’s ups and downs.They were concerned about a secured life and well-being of their children. In the course of our discussion,the husband said that from his interaction with people around, socially and professionally, he felt that his wife understood him the best.His wife and I both felt good,but it was temporary.
He continued," I have understood that now when I feel angry or stressed;
I throw my frustration only on her!"
Nothing shocking about it, because this gentleman spoke out naturally and there are many who just put it in action!
So the crust of our life is 'We always need a punching bag. '
This is not only in the relationship of husband and wife or employer-employee (even though it the most common), but it is easily, naturally and righteously transferred to our children. Finally we create an unhealthy environment for every one.
We name our shortcoming as our stress, tensions, responsibilities...The time has come now to KNOW, to ACCEPT and to HANDLE our short comings.
I have realized and experienced from my life that “What You Look for, You Get It."
You look faults; you find it (because no one is perfect)
You look for negativity; you find it (because no one is 100% positive) AND
You look for peace, you find it (because the peace is with in)...
Now let’s not say that we do try but all in vain. We know the truth.

Let's ask ourselves daily...Do we get tired finding faults? Do we get tired blaming others?

If we understand the problems in life, it is only because we don't realise WHAT, WHEN & HOW, to communicate (here. i don't mean just talking) effectively (especially with people who matter the most).
As Robin Sharma says,
“Delete what needs to be eliminated from your life - you will feel lighter, happier and your mind will experience more PEACE."

At least START doing for the next generation, if we really do care for them!!!